On a first date its important to create a positive and comfortable atmosphere. To help ensure a more successful and enjoyable experience here are some topics and phrases to avoid.

Past Relationships: Avoid talking extensively about your past relationship, especially negative experiences or comparisons with your date.

Controversial or Sensitive Topics: Steer clear of devisive subjects like politics, religon and contentious social issues that could lead to disagreements.

Money and Finances: Avoid discussing your salary, debts or financial problems. Money matters can be personal and might create tension.

Invasive Questions: Don’t ask overly personal or invasive questions such as detailed inquiries about their past dating experiences or their family dynamics.

Personal Tragedies: While sharing about your life is important avoid delving into deep personal tragedies or traumatic experiences during the initial meeting.

Negative Self Talk: Refrain from speaking negatively about yourself, putting yourself down or expressing low self -esteem.

Offensive Humour: Steer clear of offensive, crude or inappropriate jokes that could make your date uncomfortable.

Future Expectations: Don’t pressure your date about your future together or make assumptions about the outcome of the date.

Work Troubles: While mentioning your job is fine, avoid going into excessive detail about work-related problems or challenges.

Being Too Intense: Avoid coming across as too intense or moving too fast emotionally as this might scare off your date.

Remember the goal of the first date is to get to know each other in a relaxed and enjoyable manner. Focus on light, positive and engaging conversation to build a connection and leave a good impression.